Ambassadors For Humanity 2025–2026

This first weekend lays the foundation for freedom and safety (which is so important, yet often skipped or overlooked): creating inner safety and permission by befriending your nervous system.

You'll learn to:

• Find safety in your nervous system
  through tracking & regulating your inner experience.
• Create “real moments”
  to express yourself more fully.
• Live a more authentic life
  by integrating these techniques into your everyday.

For more details, check the event page for weekend 1.

Dates & times

• Fri 31 Oct 2025 (18:30 – 22:00)
  A nurturing evening, focused on landing, connecting, and starting the weekend.
• Sat 1 Nov (10:30 – 22:30)
  Daytime practices/experiences to deeply connect with the theme of this weekend. A less structured evening focussed on connection, regulation and/or co-creation.
• Sun 2 Nov (10:30 – 17:30)
  More practices/experiences to deepen and start integrating the journey in everyday life.

Zoom call

• Tue 11 Nov 2025 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Integration call 👩🏼‍💻

We’ll keep building on the inner safety & permission from weekend 1, while shifting our focus to the dynamics between individual people.

You'll learn to:

• Create relational safety & permission
  by setting shared intentions for relationships and interactions.
• Reveal your vulnerable parts
  and safely share what you’d normally hold back.
• Shift from hyper-independence or co-dependence
  into a healthy exchange of support (interdependence).
• Stay connected to yourself & others
  through the ups and downs of life.

We’re still prepping a dedicated page about this weekend. In the meanwhile, check out the page for weekend 1.

Dates & times

• Fri 28 Oct 2025 (18:30 – 22:00)
  A nurturing evening, focused on landing, connecting, and starting the weekend.
• Sat 29 Nov (10:30 – 22:30)
  Daytime practices/experiences to deeply connect with the theme of this weekend. A less structured evening focussed on connection, co-regulation and/or co-creation. Perhaps an alternative thanksgiving dinner? (Let's decide together!)
• Sun 30 Nov (10:30 – 17:30)
  More practices/experiences to deepen and start integrating the journey in everyday life.

Zoom calls

• Tue 16 Dec 2025 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Integration call 👩🏼‍💻
• Tue 13 Jan 2026 (same time)
  Community call 👩🏼‍💻
  For full program participants and those joining weekend 2 and 3.
• Tue 27 Jan 2026 (same time)
  Community call 👩🏼‍💻
  For full program participants and those joining weekend 2 and 3.

We’ll go beyond the individual/relational perspectives, and explore how safety and freedom show up in groups, communities, and society at large. We’ll bring awareness to how different groups are affected in different ways—and explore what it means to create structural freedom for everyone, rather then conditional freedom for some.

You'll learn to:

• Cultivate “clean” freedom
  Express yourself in ways that invite freedom and connection—for both yourself and others.
• See how social justice impacts everyone
  Understand why equal access to rights, opportunities, and resources, contributes to a kindness that benefits all.
• Bring nervous system awareness into action
  Stand for your ideals without burning out or losing yourself.
• Foster compassion & curiosity
  Loosen fixed beliefs about the “right” way to live or relate—and use curiosity to connect with a broader range of people.

We’re still prepping a dedicated page about this weekend. In the meanwhile, check out the page for weekend 1.

Dates & times

• Fri 6 Feb 2026 (18:30 – 22:00)
  A nurturing evening, focused on landing, connecting, and starting the weekend.
• Sat 7 Feb (10:30 – 22:30)
  Daytime practices/experiences to deeply connect with the theme of this weekend. A less structured evening focussed on connection, regulation and/or co-creation.
• Sun 8 Feb (10:30 – 17:30)
  More practices/experiences to deepen and start integrating the journey in everyday life.

Zoom call

• Tue 17 Feb 2025 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Integration call 👩🏼‍💻

The times we live in
In these times of war, polarization, systemic oppression, and even Western/democratic governments limiting freedom of speech, everyone can play a role in preserving what makes us human. One side of this is political activism: supporting specific causes or groups. The other side is seeing beyond our differences and staying open to love. Here’s a video where I talk about this in more detail:

Like every weekends, we’ll keep cultivating safety and permission. From that foundation, we’ll listen deeply: to ourselves, each other, and the kind of life and world each of us long to create.

You'll learn to:

• Experiment
  Play, try new ways, take attuned risks, and surprise yourself with new ways of doing things—opening the door to fresh ideas and insights.
• Share unpolished ideas
  and use the presence of others to discover what truly matters to you.
• Own your truth
  Take a stand for what’s important to you—build trust that your voice and vision truly matter.

We’re still prepping a dedicated page about this weekend. In the meanwhile, check out the page for weekend 1.

Dates & times

• Fri 6 Mar 2026 (18:30 – 22:00)
  A nurturing evening, focused on landing, connecting, and starting the weekend.
• Sat 7 Mar (10:30 – 22:30)
  Daytime practices/experiences to deeply connect with the theme of this weekend. A less structured evening focussed on connection, regulation and/or co-creation.
• Sun 8 Mar (10:30 – 17:30)
  More practices/experiences to deepen and start integrating the journey in everyday life.

Zoom call

• Tue 17 Mar 2025 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Integration call 👩🏼‍💻

It’s time to bring your vision into the world—not as a stressful or performative act, but through a grounded, intentional process that honors your nervous system’s capacity every step of the way.

You'll learn to:

• Think in learning cycles
  Take “right-size” steps that help you grow, adapt, and keep learning as you go.
• Lead yourself with self-care
  Use self-regulation (journaling, movement, meditation, rest) and co-regulation (touch, conversation, receiving support) to stay resourced—so you can take initiative sustainably.
• Co-create with others
  Alone may go fast, but together you’ll go far. Practice building and acting collaboratively—and find out what community and ongoing support can look like in your everyday life.

We’re still prepping a dedicated page about this weekend. In the meanwhile, check out the page for weekend 1.

Dates & times

• Fri 10 Apr 2026 (18:30 – 22:00)
  A nurturing evening, focused on landing, connecting, and starting the weekend.
• Sat 11 Apr (10:30 – 22:30)
  Daytime practices/experiences to deeply connect with the theme of this weekend. A less structured evening focussed on connection, regulation and/or co-creation.
• Sun 12 Apr (10:30 – 17:30)
  More practices/experiences to deepen and start integrating the journey in everyday life.

Zoom call

• Tue 28 Apr 2026 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Final integration call 👩🏼‍💻

Watch me explain the philosophy behind the program in more detail:

Skip to what interests you:

• 00:00:00 — Three levels of humanity
• 00:02:42 — Real Moments
• 00:04:15 — Creating real moments
• 00:06:42 — Safety and permission
• 00:09:00 — The full model
• 00:10:20 — Creating positive imprints
• 00:12:36 — Supportive environments
• 00:14:50 — Confidence, skill & sensitivity
• 00:18:22 — 5 weekends, 5 perspectives
• 00:24:36 — Group conversation

Times

With 20+ contact hours, each weekend allows for a slow start, a soft landing, and many meaningful experiences in between:

• Friday (18:30 – 22:00)
  A nurturing evening, focused on landing, connecting, and starting the weekend.
• Saturday (10:30 – 22:30)
  Daytime practices/experiences to deeply connect with the theme of this weekend. A less structured evening focussed on connection, regulation and/or co-creation.
• Sunday (10:30 – 17:30)
  More practices/experiences to deepen and start integrating the journey in everyday life.

Weekend dates

• 31 Oct – 2 Nov 2025
  Safe & free within yourself
  Program weekend 1
• 28–30 Nov 2025
  Safe & free in connection
  Program weekend 2
• 6–8 Feb 2026
  Safe & free in community
  Program weekend 3
• 6–8 Mar 2026
  Envision your path
  Program weekend 4
• 10–12 Apr 2026
  Embody your vision
  Program weekend 5

See if it fits
Add the dates to your calendar (downloads a .ics file)

Zoom calls

• Tue 11 Nov 2025 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Weekend 1 integration call 👩🏼‍💻
• Tue 16 Dec 2025 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Weekend 2 integration call 👩🏼‍💻
• Tue 13 Jan 2026 (same time)
  Community call 👩🏼‍💻
  For full program participants and those joining weekend 2 and 3.
• Tue 27 Jan 2026 (same time)
  Community call 👩🏼‍💻
  For full program participants and those joining weekend 2 and 3.
• Tue 17 Feb 2026 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Weekend 3 integration call 👩🏼‍💻
• Tue 17 Mar 2026 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Weekend 4 integration call 👩🏼‍💻
• Tue 28 Apr 2026 (19:30 – 21:30 CET)
  Weekend 5 integration call 👩🏼‍💻

Online community: the Telegram group

A resource that can be used for things like:

• Sunday sharing circle: Possibility to share life updates every Sunday.
• Emotional/practical support: Learn to ask for what you need and support each other.
• Co-creation: Birthing ideas and initiatives together.
• Connect with the team: Ask questions in between weekends.
• Anything else: Host a movie night, ask for feedback or advice, find an accountability partner, or offer your skills and wisdom.

The group will lose its official status after the program, but can continue to exists for those who want it.

Practical:

• Group size: 10–25 lovely humans
• Availability: There are still free spots. Join us
• Language: English
• Preparation: When you join, you’ll receive a free copy of part 1 of Mette’s book, which you're invited to read.
• Bring: comfortable, layered clothing, pen&paper, a water bottle, snacks for in between meals—and whatever brings you comfort or joy.

Venue, food, staying over:

• Venue: Karada House, Berlin (listed on google maps as KARA Kulturraum). It's a beautiful, queer, collaborative art space in Berlin Moabit. Photos and accessibility description below.
• Accommodation: It’s possible (and fully optional) to stay at the house on Friday and Saturday night. For €25 per night, you’ll receive a mattress & sheets. You’ll either stay in the workshop space or in another shared space. Limited availability.
• Food: You can bring your own food or go to one of the nearby restaurants during the breaks. Some people will typically eat together.
• Accessibility: There is a ramp and extra bell that can be reached without climbing stairs at the entry. The house has no thresholds. There is an accessible bathroom and shower. The garden can be reached via the garden gate. The only non-accessible parts of the house are the two mezzanines that allow for extra space. There's a parking space available right in front of the door in the backyard. Please get in touch if you require any assistance.
• Pets: You can't bring your super cute doggie. I'm sorry.

Can you picture yourself here?
Sign up or book a free discovery call with Mette.

Default prices

For the full journey:

• €1.450 — when money is tight (includes 19% VAT)
• €1.850 — when you can pay some more
• €2.250 — when you’re financially comfortable
• €3.550 — when you can afford the sustainable price

When joining 1–4 weekends:

• €325 — when joining 1 weekend (includes 19% VAT)
• €305 — when joining 2 weekends
• €290 — when joining 3+ weekends

Too much?

• Scroll down for lower-income options or paying in installments.

What you’ll get

Each weekend includes:

• 20+ contact hours in person
• A two-hour follow-up call on Zoom
• Early access to part 1 of Mette’s book.
• Ongoing support and connection in the Telegram Group
• A committed group of peers who prioritize growth and connection.

Lower-income options

Preference for those who need it most. Only 2 spots:

• €725 – €925 — helper for the full program
• €145 – €250 — helper for a single weekend
• Request a scholarship
  I can sometimes offer scholarships (25–50% discount).

Pay in installments
It's possible to pay in installments. This brings more risk and administration on my side, so it costs a little more:

• Pay in 2 installments: 1.5% fee
• Pay in 3 installments: 3% fee
• Pay in 6 installments: 6% fee

Make your choice
You can indicate your price preference as you sign up. Priority for helper spots and scholarships is given to those facing challenging situations or with marginalized identities. Unsure what to do? Book a call call or message me on Telegram.

Mette Koppelaar (they/he, 1984)
Joins weekends: 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5

“I see authentic self-expression as a doorway to welcoming all of myself, building genuine connection, and contributing to a more loving world. It’s made me less dependent on consumption to feel good, helped me transform unhealthy coping mechanisms in more meaningful ways of living, and opened me up to connecting with a much broader range of people.

As a facilitator, I’ve been influenced by frameworks like Polyvagal Theory, the Wheel of Consent, Internal Family Systems, Nonviolent Communication, and the Diamond Approach. I create spaces where people from different identities can learn to be true to themselves, build connection, and contribute to a culture where everyone can feel more free.

My approach rests on a simple principle: when we create enough outer safety and permission, you’ll meet the edges of your inner safety and permission. When you have positive experiences at your edges, you can slowly become more comfortable with a wider range of expression. Over time, this allows you to reveal more of yourself in more areas of life.

I was born in Amsterdam in 1984. I’m white, able-bodied, middle-class, and gender nonconforming, using they/them or he/him pronouns. I grew up with safety and stability, with parents who spent years in group therapy before I was born. I haven’t faced war or poverty, and my passport allows me to travel freely—privileges I’m increasingly aware of. At the same time, dressing outside gender norms has shown me what it’s like to not always feel safe on the street. Research, book interviews, and many personal conversations have deepened my understanding of societal oppression—especially for those whose identities are most targeted. What began as a search to deepen my personal freedom has turned into a deep longing for a free and equal world. It’s what I strive to contribute to, one real moment at a time.”

Connect with me
Book a freecall, join my mailing list, Telegram channel, or Instagram — or watch some of the videos below this photo:

Watch me talk

Why I created Ambassadors For Humanity:

How dressing outside the norm led me to do this work:

Christa Cocciole (she/her, 1970)
Joins weekends: 2, 3, 4 & 5

“I’m a Berlin-based Systemic and Trauma Therapist. I’ve been walking with people through moments of deep change for more than thirty years. My roots are in movement: dancing, choreographing, and listening to the quiet wisdom of the body. Over time, this grew into a way of working that I call Radical Presence — moving with playful compassion.

I believe the body remembers, and that those memories capture both our wounds and ways forward. As a facilitator, my role is to create spaces where people can meet themselves fully, even in the discomfort of transformation, and discover the resilience and creativity already alive within them.

My journey has taken me from reconciliation work during the war in Bosnia to psychiatric hospitals and grassroots collectives. Along the way, I’ve co-founded spaces like Ponderosa, Gut Stolzenhagen, and k77 Studio. They're places where connection, care, and embodied social justice are not just ideas, but lived experiences.

As a white-presenting BIPOC cis woman, I am committed to questions of belonging, equity, and repair. I see my work as midwifing what is ready to be born—whether in individuals, communities, or systems—and helping release what is no longer needed, so something new can take root.”

Cosima Siegling (she/her, 1996)

Joins weekends: 1, 3 & 5

“I’m deeply engaged with questions of human connection—between people and in relation to the environment. Over the past decade, I’ve focused on creating spaces for political education, community building, and meaningful connection. In this, I bring a strong commitment to consent, clear communication, and space for nuance.

I hold a B.A. in Philosophy and Communication Science and an M.Sc. in Human Ecology, where I explored ethical and structural questions of the human‐environment relationship. Combined with years of designing group processes and learning environments, this gives me a solid toolkit to work with the intersections between individual, cultural, and structural dynamics.

My personal lens is shaped by both privilege and challenge. I’m a white, able-bodied, middle-class woman, born very premature but able to grow into health thanks to modern medicine. I grew up in a conservative Catholic village in southern Germany, later stepping exploring a more secular view. As a pansexual and polyamorous girl/woman, leaving the place I grew up in meant a lot of freedom and space to explore who I am and how I love. At the same time, I was confronted early on (and still am today) with mental illness in my family. At the same time, I experienced a strong foundation of love and support, and had the privilege of accessing therapy at a young age. These contrasts ground my awareness of how both hardship and resources shape our ability to grow, integrate, love and flourish.

A particular focus of mine has been facilitating sex-positive, experiential, and educational spaces — approaching touch, bodies, sexuality, and relationships in an embodied and emancipatory way. Having lived in polyamorous constellations for almost ten years, it’s close to my heart to support people in deconstructing and reimagining their own concepts of love, intimacy, partnership, and sexuality.

I’m truly excited to be part of Ambassadors for Humanity and to share this journey with you.”

Cosima introduces herself
Watch Cosima introducing herself during the Zoom call when this program was not much more than a broad idea:

Anna Schmidbauer
Joins weekends: 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5

Bio coming soon (she's wonderful, though!)

You’re so welcome to join us ❤

• Join the core group:
  Full program signup form
• Pick your dates:
  Weekend signup form
• Can’t choose?
  Book a discovery call (with Mette)

If you can, please sign up early — it gives you time to prepare (mentally) and tells us who to expect.

“It’s really not that cold!”
– some person who jumped in the water before you

Many people spiral back and forth between yes and no. But not all spirals are the same. Here are two types of doubts people tell me about:

1. Actual life concerns:

• “I have wayyyyy too many things going on. Adding something will send me straight into a burnout.”
• “I know it’s not the right time, but I fear this is my last chanc.e”
• “I'm really low on cash, and spending more money will affect my ability to pay rent or buy food.”

If this is you, then now is probably not the best time to join. (Maybe read about nervous system regulation through shaking on my Telegram.)

2. Fear of doing something new:

• “Part of me is excited! But I’m also a little afraid”
• “I have little experience in these spaces — and I fear I’ll be the only one.”
• “I don’t yet know anyone there — and I fear I’ll feel awkward or alone.”

If this is you, it’s what I call “normal” fear or resistance. So, at the risk of sounding persuasive...

Here's my take on it:

• You won’t be the only inexperienced one. Most participants don’t yet know each other. Rather, we all start to form a deep bond over the course of experience. That’s the beauty!
• Many people have these kinds of fears — especially the first time. In fact, it’s almost prerequisite for joining because it shows you’re on your edge of growth.
• I suggest to stop overthinking, remember that you can always leave, and take a leap of faith. The water really isn't that cold.

Free, online gatherings to:

• Decide if you want to join the actual program
• Start building group energy
• Share your voice, ask questions, and let your voice influence the program

There are two calls left:

Each call contains an educational part which shows what to expect from the program & some actual interactive experiences.

• Tue 30 Sep 2025 (19:30–21:30 CET, zoom)
  Join this Orientation Call
• Tue 14 Oct 2025 (19:30–21:30 CET, zoom)
  Join this Orientation Call

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The following values are the foundation for all my work. If these don't resonate with you, then we may not be a match. Of course, these values are always a work in progress. If something about them doesn’t feel right, or if you have ideas for improvement, I would love to hear from you. Message me on Telegram or through the contact form.

If it ever feels like I or any of the team members don't live up to these values, I would love for you to tell me.

1. Authenticity: Everyone's invited to verbally, physically, and emotionally express themselves. We can play with our expression without justifying ourselves, yet we strive to do so in a way that’s considerate of other people.

2. Inclusivity: We welcome all identities and personal backgrounds. We try to notice the judgments and assumptions we make about others, and question racism, sexism, ageism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, or other discriminatory beliefs or behavior.

3. Consent: We respect each other's space, stuff, boundaries and privacy. We share a responsibility to create a safe environment for ourselves as well as for others.

4. Confidentiality: We don’t share about other people’s experiences. We don’t comment on other people’s experiences without their consent.

5. Self and group responsibility: We try to be aware of the ways in which we take up space and strive to contribute to the safety of the group. We’re all responsible for our own physical and emotional needs.

6. No sex or romance with team members: Team members don't share arousal, sexual energy, or romance with participants. (We might like to share hugs or other forms of touch though!)

7. No intoxication: We don't consume drugs and alcohol during or before the event, and limit the use of phones/devices in public spaces.

Not all experiences in these kinds of spaces are pleasant—even when everyone tries to do things right.

If you have an unpleasant experience with a team member or fellow participant, I encourage you to reach out to them directly. Alternatively, you're very welcome to contact me (Mette) via Telegram or the contact form, or to contact any other team member. We may be able to support you. We won’t take any action without your consent.

If you have an unpleasant experience with me (Mette), you're invited to reach out to me directly, contact another team member, or approach my accountability partner Anouk Bongers. She won't communicate with me unless you consent to it. You can find her contact details here.

It may take time to process certain experiences. Sometimes months or years. The offer above remains valid. There’s no such thing as reaching out too late.

Sadly, it’s much easier to make a decent living by working for companies that harm the planet or fuel inequality than it is trying to contribute to a better world.

Since sustainable event prices are often perceived as expensive or “commercial”, I like to be transparent about how the prices were calculated, so you can get a sense of how this works from my side.

The price calculation:

1. I aim to work 5 days a week, 8 hours a day. Out of those hours, roughly 40% of my time goes into things like admin, general promotion, and other general tasks. This means I have around 24 hours per workweek to make my income.
2. On a yearly basis, I have to account for vacation, sick days, public holidays, festivals where I work for free to make a name for myself, and the time I spend on training that lets me do this work in a responsible, trauma-informed way. Which leaves me with around 38 work weeks per year.
3. This means I have to make my entire annual income in 24 x 38 = 912 hours per year, or 76 hours per month.
4. I spend at least 460 hours on one edition of this program:
• 145+ hours of preparation: developing the program; promotion; venue communication; setting up a team; handling signups and cancellations; chasing payments; communicating with participants, helpers, team members, and the venue; shopping; and many more small tasks.
• 275+ hours for preparing and facilitating the actual five weekends
• 40+ hours for preparing and hosting the online calls
5. Besides the time investment, I spend money on overhead costs for my business, renting the venue, paying team members, and buying materials I need for running the program. Depending on how signups are going, I might have to spend money on online promotion, printing flyers, etc.
6. Now, to earn the median salary for someone my age (41) in this part of the world, I have to generate a shocking €104 for each hour that I work on this program (excluding VAT). To achieve this, I would need to have 20 signups for an average of €3.450 per participant, or €690 per weekend (including VAT).
7. To make this program more inclusive, I've lowered my salary to one third (!) of the median, which reduces the average price to €1.850 per person including VAT, which means I rely on additional donations to make it work. It also means that for everyone paying less, there needs to be someone paying more.
8. While this enables more people to come to the event, the impact on me is that I have a very low salary and very little security: I basically cut out all of my safety nets. I don't save money, I don't save up for a pension, and I don't have disability insurance. This works as long as I'm healthy, have access to cheap housing, and don't have kids or anyone else to care for. But it offers very little security—now and later in life—and I would be properly screwed whenever I have any medical challenges.

So, it's complicated...

Bravo if you made it to the end of this. If you want to share your reflections (or make a donation), feel free to message me on Telegram or through the contact form.

Or go back up to the pricing options.

Conditions for canceling your ticket

If your spot is taken by someone you found or someone on the waiting list:

• 100% refund minus €75 admin fee

If no one takes your spot:

• Cancel up to 2 months before we start: 100% refund minus €75
• Cancel up to 1 calendar month before we start: 50% refund
• Cancel up to 2 weeks before we start: 20% refund
• Cancel in the 13 days before we start: no refund

A few things to keep in mind:

• The waiting list only opens once the event is sold out.
• I consider your spot taken when when (a) you found someone to take your spot and they mention your name their application form or (b) the program is full, the spots of any people who cancelled before you have been taken first, and someone on the remaining waiting list takes your spot.
• I'll refund you once the new person has paid in full.
• You can't transfer your spot to someone else without my approval.
• If you haven't paid the full amount and no one has taken your spot, you're obliged to pay all remaining installments—even if you cancelled.

Conditions when I cancel the event:

• 100% refund